Do guys view me as a toy or do they actually see past my looks?

I've had a lot of short term relationships and every time I've broken up with them their excuse has been "I'm a guy". I feel like guys overlook my brains and feelings and only see me as a toy. I have long naturally blonde hair, big blue eyes, big lips, rosy cheeks, big , and hips. I also wear makeup, style my hair, and I have long tanned always shaved legs. All of my exes have also never called me pretty or cute, but always y or rockin'. Thanks. :)