For male gays: what does make it better for you guys to have with men rather than women?

I don't really wanna be identified as gay, I am just a person who happens to like men. But I can't speak for other men but for me is not so important (but it is good to do!). Yes the idea of body to body is great, but for me I like to cuddle up with a guy. Warm hugs are nice. I like the smell of men, and also like the face and masculinity. I'm someone who will smile when I see a guy with a puppy or like dad with his children, I find these things really sweet and I'm sure lot's of women do too. Women just don't offer that for me, like I want a strong solid man to hold me. Hahahaha