How to stop being s sensitive?

Hi,i i am very sensitive person,and intuitive sort of ,and my family understands but sometimes gets upset with me than i get hurt ,and my sensitivety has caused me to be paranoid now,the reason is i got know a neighber she likes know everything and when i was depressed sensitive about something she has way of pullng you in and i told her something personal......and now i'm afraid if she ges mad at me she will tell everyone ,not real bad but i opened up to her ,and she has a way of telling details about others lives and alays will say its better to be my friend than my enemy ....i'm so tired being to nice everyone now i'm upset can anyone relate to this o have an answer .....i suffer ocd so this is getting me upset and i am mad at myself for talking to someone like that thank you!!!!!!!!